Is your heart broken? Are you depressed over your breakup yet you still hold onto a sliver of hope that there might be something that you can do to win back your ex?
You have tried:
Calling your ex but all you get is coldness when they do answer the phone or have they started not answering your phone calls?
Texting your ex with no reply or requests not to text them any more?
Sent emails explaining how much you still love them and begging them for another chance or asking if you could get together to talk about the breakup?
Tried talking to friends or family about the breakup in hopes that they will intervene on your behalf and try to talk some sense into your ex?
Tried sending love letters or cards or even flowers or other gifts in hope that they will see that you really do love them?
I am sorry to say that all of these things are only driving your partner further away by the minute. These tactics never work. Although they seem like the right thing to do, these methods have been proven to kill attraction. If you continue down this path there is no doubt that you will destroy any chance that you may have of ever getting your ex back.
The good news is that there ARE things that you can do to rebuild your relationship and draw your ex back to you. Any damage that has been done over the days, weeks or months CAN be undone. You don’t have to be sneaky about it or do anything underhanded. You’re not going to have to “act” in any particular way or try to be someone that you’re not. There will be no reason for you to get into counseling or ask your ex to go to counseling, even if you do think that they are acting crazy these days!
The first order of business is going to be getting yourself back together emotionally so that is where we will start. Now, I don’t care if there is someone else sniffing around or even if they have found someone else. This isn’t going to matter, believe me! The important thing is that you get yourself together emotionally and rebuild your confidence.
You need to get back to being the loveable person that your partner fell in love with when you first met. Chances are you weren’t like you are right now when you and your lover first met, correct? You weren’t upset all the time and you didn’t have to beg and plead for them to start going out with you. So we’re going to get back to being that person again which means that you’re not going to stress about getting your ex back any more.
Instead you’re going to smile more, eat healthy, take care of your appearance and start doing things that signify that you are a happy, healthy person. Even if you don’t feel like it at first, “fake it ‘til you make it” and soon you will actually begin to feel happy again. You aren’t going to worry about getting your ex back any more because that isn’t going to be an issue! I’ll let you in on a little secret. Your ex fell in love with you once so there is no doubt in my mind, and there shouldn’t be in yours either, that they still love you deep down inside. All we are going to do is bring that love and affection back to the surface once again. Up through the muck and mire of this breakup their love will rise once again and soon they will be asking you for another chance.
If your ex has broken off all contact with you we can re-initiate contact with them using one of the methods that has worked so well for so many others. It is actually stolen from Ryan Hall and his book “Pull Your Ex Back” and you can use the same technique on his website yourself. Not right away but soon you are going to text your ex or send them an email….a very cleverly crafted email that will draw them out and begin the process where eventually they will be pursuing you.
I know that this might be a bit difficult to believe and at this moment you might not think that it could ever happen but let’s think about this for a minute. The things that you have done on your own haven’t worked. Why not take the advice of someone that has successfully helped thousands of couples to get back together.
To learn more about Ryan Hall’s “Pull Your Ex Back” and to see for yourself how you can begin to turn the tables on your ex and get them chasing after you instead of the other way around, go to the “Pull Your Ex Back” Homepage. Take the advice that has helped thousands of couples just like you and yours.
Subscribe to:
Post Comments (Atom)
No comments:
Post a Comment