Are you frantic to get your ex boyfriend back but you are worried that he has moved on? Are you scared to death that your boyfriend will move on and then you will have to deal with a whole new kind of pain from your broken heart? The truth is that men are similar in some ways to women when it comes to affairs of the heart and there is a way for you to leverage this fact in a way that will help you to get your ex boyfriend back.
Honestly, chances are your ex boyfriend doesn’t hate you and with a little understanding it is truly possible not only to get him back but to get your ex back with very little fuss. You see, even the toughest and most macho of men have a soft white underbelly when it comes to love, affection and feelings. It is just a matter of bringing those feelings to the surface and getting him to feel the passion and love that he once felt for you again.
His Mind and Memories – Your ex boyfriend can be the toughest guy in the world and he might even be telling you right now that he doesn’t feel anything for you anymore. But the truth is probably something entirely different. The truth is that the reality is that he is probably just reacting to your desire to get back together and maybe some other outside influences that you may or may not know about.
Given some time he will eventually revisit the memories that are embedded in his mind of happy times that the two of you shared. Short of getting a lobotomy, those memories will always be with him and it’s just a matter of doing the right things to bring them out. A word of warning though; if you are trying to make him think about these memories you will probably only come up against resistance by forcing the issue.
The Cream Rises to the Top – Just like the old saying goes, the cream indeed does rise to the top and in this instance we are talking about both you, as a girlfriend, and the memories that your ex boyfriend has of happy, loving times the two of you spent together. But how do you get him to think of the good times and forget about the bad times of recent past?
Yes, in time your ex boyfriend will forget about the bad things that have happened between the two of you and only the good memories will remain. As a result he will begin to look back with fondness on the time spent with you and wish that he had never dumped you. If completely left alone this will happen all on its own… although it may take a year or more. But time is of the essence, right? This is why it is important to be wise about how you re initiate contact with him and gently, almost subliminally get him thinking about the good times by reminding him of how things used to be.
Leveraging the Good Times – The key here is gentleness when attempting to brush aside the damage from recent history in order to uncover the memories of good times your ex boyfriend spent with you. Being friendly while being aloof… happy while holding something in reserve and caring while being just a bit unavailable are crucial in your success in bringing memories of good times to the surface. Bluntly reminding him of how things were will avail you very little while stirring emotions by perhaps calling him a pet name that you haven’t used in a while or even wearing a perfume that he hasn’t smelt in a while can be effective tools in stirring these emotions amongst other things.
But once you have planted that seed you can rest assured that in the quietness of the night and the loneliness of your ex boyfriend’s new self induced bachelorhood, he will begin to relive happier times spent with you. He will begin to feel the same pain that you feel right now and perhaps even grow concerned that you might move on and give those happy memories to someone else. Soon you will begin to see changes in him… subtle at first but soon growing to consume him before long. And this is where knowing how to really play the game comes in and where your greatest challenge begins.
Enjoy the process of getting your ex boyfriend back with the confidence of your eventual success always in your mind. With a little patience and understanding you definitely can get your ex boyfriend back, end the pain of your breakup and have him back in your loving arms once again with little or no trouble.
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